"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl i was gaming has a boy friend

danny987

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Yep been gaming her every once and a while (we go to different schools so i only see her twice a week). Ends up she has had a BF for only a couple of days. What should i do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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is she even remotely interested in you? or are YOU just "gaming" her?

if she has any interest or shows positive responses to your "gaming"... go for it, especially before there's too much emotional attachment to her boyfriend of a couple days.
 

theunflushables

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I don't know...A relationship of a couple days...that's an unbreakable bond. :crackup:

Keep gaming her.
 

Moon Ram

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Hey, I broke a 4 year long relationship between my worst foe and one of the hottest girl in my college. I totally broke my enemies' heart. If I can do it, so can you
 

SinJester

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Did she get the boyfriend after you had been 'gaming' her for awhile? Sounds like you should move on.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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smoothtalker72

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i actually had this happen to me too. i had been talking to the girl all summer and one day one of the guys she hangs out with who secretly had a crush on her asked her to be his girlfriend and she said yes. thing is she was too afraid to tell me because she really liked me and didnt know what to do (her words not mine). she kept going on and on about how she was confused. and i really felt bad for the poor guy. i was really just practicing with the girl and had no intention of doing anything with her but i could have taken his girl from him just like that. and whats funny is she was more attached to me than she was to him. shed call me every day and text me constantly. i started putting distance between us our of respect for her boyfriend.
 
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