"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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danny987

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Yep been gaming her every once and a while (we go to different schools so i only see her twice a week). Ends up she has had a BF for only a couple of days. What should i do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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is she even remotely interested in you? or are YOU just "gaming" her?

if she has any interest or shows positive responses to your "gaming"... go for it, especially before there's too much emotional attachment to her boyfriend of a couple days.
 
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theunflushables

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I don't know...A relationship of a couple days...that's an unbreakable bond. :crackup:

Keep gaming her.
 
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Hey, I broke a 4 year long relationship between my worst foe and one of the hottest girl in my college. I totally broke my enemies' heart. If I can do it, so can you
 
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Did she get the boyfriend after you had been 'gaming' her for awhile? Sounds like you should move on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i actually had this happen to me too. i had been talking to the girl all summer and one day one of the guys she hangs out with who secretly had a crush on her asked her to be his girlfriend and she said yes. thing is she was too afraid to tell me because she really liked me and didnt know what to do (her words not mine). she kept going on and on about how she was confused. and i really felt bad for the poor guy. i was really just practicing with the girl and had no intention of doing anything with her but i could have taken his girl from him just like that. and whats funny is she was more attached to me than she was to him. shed call me every day and text me constantly. i started putting distance between us our of respect for her boyfriend.
 
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