You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
blackbelt2k said:right...and how many GOOD mothers are there out there??? Last time i looked at the percentages children were having children... he's not using the kid as a way in, persay, he can however accept that the hb comes with baggage, and show he is non threatening by helping her with her bags, so to speak...
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It isn't a matter of working hard, its a matter of interpreting her sub-communication... A chicks word doesn't mean $hitoteao99 said:lol. If you want to work hard to change how she thinks about you then do that
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
GtarPlayr73 said:I dated this HB9 woman back in 2000-2001 for several months before ending things. Two years ago, i contacted her and we started seeing each other again. Things were much better than the first time around, only she had put on some weight, enough for it to be a problem for me and i made the mistake of telling her so. I dropped her for a blond i met at a party. Over the past year, i stayed in touch with the HB9 via email. She started working out and began getting back in shape. (She was originally devastatingly beautiful before she had a son at an early age). She lost a lot of weight and sent me a pic to prove it. Then we ran into each other at a local supermarket. It was like something out of the movies. She wasn't kidding - she was back to her stunning and slim HB9 potential. I emailed her (didn't have her number), expressed interest, she had compliments for my longer hair as well. She said she was engaged and couldn't see me. Later, when i nonchalantly pressed for the wedding date, she said she had called it off. (Hmmm...all a fabrication to make me regret not sticking with her?). So i gave her the benefit of the doubt and waited several months before emailing her today. I made it clear i wanted to pursue her again and conveyed sexual designs, while throwing in some push-pull. I asked her for her number and she gave it to me in her reply - it was the first thing she wrote. Then she wrote "Don't call anytime soon, but that way you have it". She then said she would be reluctant to get into a sexual relationship given that she couldn't trust my intentions. (She does have a healthy sex drive and is very open about it).
Obvious Question: Is "Don't call anytime soon" just an Anti-Slut Defense and she does want to hear from me soon or do you think she really wants me to wait? If i called her tonight or tomorrow, would she be offended or not cool with it?