“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl I rejected walks by my house on the regular....

timmyroni

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She's a very pretty but incredibly dull and uninteresting girl and I just couldn't bring myself to date her despite her high level of interest.

I was probably not very tactful in displaying my boredom. When I was mid conversation with her, another girl from our social group walked by, and I decided to ride with her to another bar. I left rather abruptly. Needless to say, she wasn't very happy about this and 'tactfully' displayed her displeasure with my decision.

I've seen her a few times since then and she freezes up in a state of shock every time she sees me. I try to be pleasant and say hi but she just can't bring herself to interact.

We've rideshared and carpooled a few times so she knows where I live. I see her going on walks and walking her dogs directly in front of my duplex on a semi-regular basis, including with her boyfriend. This strikes me as a little strange quite frankly. I still suspect she is interested in me and wants to 'accidentally' strike something up.

Should I go for it? I doubt I will. I do get the sense she is pushing for me to try though...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hitch & Ditch at best.
 

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She's a very pretty but incredibly dull and uninteresting girl and I just couldn't bring myself to date her despite her high level of interest.

I was probably not very tactful in displaying my boredom. When I was mid conversation with her, another girl from our social group walked by, and I decided to ride with her to another bar. I left rather abruptly. Needless to say, she wasn't very happy about this and 'tactfully' displayed her displeasure with my decision.

I've seen her a few times since then and she freezes up in a state of shock every time she sees me. I try to be pleasant and say hi but she just can't bring herself to interact.

We've rideshared and carpooled a few times so she knows where I live. I see her going on walks and walking her dogs directly in front of my duplex on a semi-regular basis, including with her boyfriend. This strikes me as a little strange quite frankly. I still suspect she is interested in me and wants to 'accidentally' strike something up.

Should I go for it? I doubt I will. I do get the sense she is pushing for me to try though...
There are literally billions of women on this planet and you've concluded this one doesn't interest you, and she has a boyfriend.

Go talk to other women that do interest you.

This post smells of humble brag. There's no question of strategy or request for insight. Just so we're clear OP, women crushing on you should be normal, not some rare event in your life.
 
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Should I go for it? I doubt I will. I do get the sense she is pushing for me to try though...
Why are you asking this question when you already know the answer?

You say she is boring. Is there anything to add?

You cannot fake attraction dude.. Don't fool yourself.
 
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