"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl I nexted is begging me for a date now. How to play this?

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Interesting how she said it was his attitude in the begining that pushed her away from him. I don't know Vlad too well so I can't say if she was lying (ergo justifying him being an a-hole) or speaking the truth.

Either way, it doesn't really matter now. He has enough plates spinning that he doesn't need to waste anymore energy and time in trying to manipulate this situation into an anger bang. It probably won't be worth it.

Plus think of the consequences from thereafter. Can you imagine the scenario in where he does anger bang her and drops her? How WILL she react afterwards?

This girl has already displayed neediness and insecure behavior on her part from what 2 dates that Vlad was on with her? Imagine her increased neediness and insecure behavior after he anger bangs her.

Vlad, like I said before, just drop her. Cut all contact. It's time to REALLY next. It's obvious you and her never clicked in the first place. Why bother digging yourself deeper in an unnecessary hole now?

Hit up K-mart or CVS one of these days and pick up a plate or two. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Bat said:
Hit up K-mart or CVS one of these days and pick up a plate or two. ;)
This actually brings up some good points. After his Wal-Mart thread, going to these discount stores are an IDEAL place to pick up LOW QUALITY WOMEN. I might have to incorporate some CA & sarging into my game. They might even be more productive than the local watering hole.
 

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Don't encourage him man... he might actually do it.
 

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Vypros said:
Or you could pull the "nice guy" routine.

You could become so clingy that she wants nothing to do with you again.
DUDE !

Where is your Self respect man?

THERE IS NOTHING NICE ABOUT BEING NICE !

you either fvck her in the ass or let her suffer more like she did to other guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MacAvoy said:
This actually brings up some good points. After his Wal-Mart thread, going to these discount stores are an IDEAL place to pick up LOW QUALITY WOMEN. I might have to incorporate some CA & sarging into my game. They might even be more productive than the local watering hole.

You never shop at Wal-Mart? She was just a customer. And her dad is a doctor. Unless she's lying about that to impress me, which is possible.

As for the girl this thread is about, after she cussed me out I said "Sorry, let me make it up to you and buy you a drink Sunday"

She said

"No thanks, you want nothing to do with me so stop emailing me."

And that's exactly what I'll do. I guess now in her mind she can say she dumped me.
 
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