girl i met yesterday

[specialed]

i met some girl yesterday at a little gathering of no more then 6 of us. we talked and got to know eachother but never had actual 1 on 1 time and i didn't want to pressure her into anything. however when we were leaving...her and her friend left first and then as we were leaving i talked to the girl that lives in the house which is a friend of mine to talk to her and try to give me a hook up.

She was giving me signs throughout the night, eye contact, stealing looks and laughing when i was.

How should i follow up, just play this by ear and see what happens? advice!

 

[specialed]

maybe i'm blind but i don't see anything in there that relates to what i said.

 

[mungro]

I have what seems like a thousand of these brush encounters every year... and what I've learned finally is that if you've never met her before, and you still haven't met her after hanging out in a group of 6 people... and she didn't say anything to you at last meeting and you didn't say anything to her... then chances are things will stay the way they were before you met...

I don't wanna be harsh, but I've been in so many of those situations where yes the girl looks at me and I look at her... but that doesn't mean anything if you don't get a contact... like a phone number etc...

hopefully your friend will try some magic and give you a hook up... you can work from there... good luck on that one

 

[specialed]

you missed the point when i pointed out that i did talk to her...a lot actually

 

[seroph]

lol. you probably already found the DJ bible (top right hand corner link). it's got all you need.

if i were in your situation, i'd just ask your friend to do another get-together.. maybe this time with more people.. ask the girl if she wants to step outside for some air/cig and u'll have space to game. otherwise, sit right on the couch. i dunno. if ur good friends with this friend, that should be no prob to organize.

or just have her arrange some small hang out.

*shrugs* it all sounds sorta high-school-ish, no?


next time, though, get her #. it avoids all this.

-JP