"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i met some girl yesterday at a little gathering of no more then 6 of us. we talked and got to know eachother but never had actual 1 on 1 time and i didn't want to pressure her into anything. however when we were leaving...her and her friend left first and then as we were leaving i talked to the girl that lives in the house which is a friend of mine to talk to her and try to give me a hook up.

She was giving me signs throughout the night, eye contact, stealing looks and laughing when i was.

How should i follow up, just play this by ear and see what happens? advice!
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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I have what seems like a thousand of these brush encounters every year... and what I've learned finally is that if you've never met her before, and you still haven't met her after hanging out in a group of 6 people... and she didn't say anything to you at last meeting and you didn't say anything to her... then chances are things will stay the way they were before you met...

I don't wanna be harsh, but I've been in so many of those situations where yes the girl looks at me and I look at her... but that doesn't mean anything if you don't get a contact... like a phone number etc...

hopefully your friend will try some magic and give you a hook up... you can work from there... good luck on that one
 
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lol. you probably already found the DJ bible (top right hand corner link). it's got all you need.

if i were in your situation, i'd just ask your friend to do another get-together.. maybe this time with more people.. ask the girl if she wants to step outside for some air/cig and u'll have space to game. otherwise, sit right on the couch. i dunno. if ur good friends with this friend, that should be no prob to organize.

or just have her arrange some small hang out.

*shrugs* it all sounds sorta high-school-ish, no?


next time, though, get her #. it avoids all this.

-JP
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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