"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl I made out is being indifferent.

moneyisking

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According to the bible, it says "if girl is being indifferent, challenge her".

Of course, I must consider my own feelings first, but this girl is annoying me.

Summarizing the flow of show: So I spontaneously met her, asked her to go out, we went

out and made out. At first she was the one texting me all the time, but now she stopped

texting me at all. So 4-5 days later I ask her out to party, she comes, we play beer pong,

and make out. Then I grab her hand, take her outside, smoke, make out again. Then after

some time she had to leave and I tell her to come over. She can't b/c her best friend is

moving, which is true b/c she was there and told me about her move. I say ok, and later

she calls me and tells me she loves me. I tell her I like spending time with her, but didn't

say love you or like you. Then her indifference continues and like 2 days later I ask her out

to party, and she didn't answer her phone or text me back. So I got tired of her

indifference and decided to not txt her. 3 days have passed.


What I really don't get is how this girl is so affectionate and has good time when she's with me, but just goes crab in a shell when we are not in person. I don't know. My friends tell me she's a player, and I think she's playing with dudes. I am very close to just nexting her and not txt or call. Or I can txt her "hey, we strangers now?" for the last time.

Well, sh!t, it's good time to grow again, so don't hold back your advices please. Thank you gentlemen.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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blueline

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Woah, she's saying "I love you" waaaay too early. Ask her if you're strangers in a week. 3 days is too early.
 

pipe007

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seems that you know your game pretty well, and you are doing fine

she seems to be unreliable and probably (most likely) playing you

I can assume she is dating other dudes as well. The fact that she goes all indiferent should be your red flag.

I've been in this situation before and it has always been that the girl was spinning other plates.

reality check: there is nothing you can do at this point but to wait for her to contact you, if she doesnt contact you first, move on...

I would delete her number if I was you just to make sure Im not the one to contact first
 

moneyisking

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Yeah, like my friends said, she probably is seeing other dudes; I mean, no brag but this girl is just cute and hot.

Blueline tells me to wait for a week to text her, pipe tells me to wait til she txt first. I am divided in a path of txting her later or nexting her unless she contacts me first. I don't know, hm...

It sucks that I'm not the one spinning plates, but it's all good. I will be able to do that soon.
 

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She doesnt love you, she is infactuated with you....nows your chance, go for the gold. Get her back to your place before it wears off....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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