"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl I made out is being indifferent.

moneyisking

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According to the bible, it says "if girl is being indifferent, challenge her".

Of course, I must consider my own feelings first, but this girl is annoying me.

Summarizing the flow of show: So I spontaneously met her, asked her to go out, we went

out and made out. At first she was the one texting me all the time, but now she stopped

texting me at all. So 4-5 days later I ask her out to party, she comes, we play beer pong,

and make out. Then I grab her hand, take her outside, smoke, make out again. Then after

some time she had to leave and I tell her to come over. She can't b/c her best friend is

moving, which is true b/c she was there and told me about her move. I say ok, and later

she calls me and tells me she loves me. I tell her I like spending time with her, but didn't

say love you or like you. Then her indifference continues and like 2 days later I ask her out

to party, and she didn't answer her phone or text me back. So I got tired of her

indifference and decided to not txt her. 3 days have passed.


What I really don't get is how this girl is so affectionate and has good time when she's with me, but just goes crab in a shell when we are not in person. I don't know. My friends tell me she's a player, and I think she's playing with dudes. I am very close to just nexting her and not txt or call. Or I can txt her "hey, we strangers now?" for the last time.

Well, sh!t, it's good time to grow again, so don't hold back your advices please. Thank you gentlemen.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blueline

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Woah, she's saying "I love you" waaaay too early. Ask her if you're strangers in a week. 3 days is too early.
 

pipe007

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seems that you know your game pretty well, and you are doing fine

she seems to be unreliable and probably (most likely) playing you

I can assume she is dating other dudes as well. The fact that she goes all indiferent should be your red flag.

I've been in this situation before and it has always been that the girl was spinning other plates.

reality check: there is nothing you can do at this point but to wait for her to contact you, if she doesnt contact you first, move on...

I would delete her number if I was you just to make sure Im not the one to contact first
 

moneyisking

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Yeah, like my friends said, she probably is seeing other dudes; I mean, no brag but this girl is just cute and hot.

Blueline tells me to wait for a week to text her, pipe tells me to wait til she txt first. I am divided in a path of txting her later or nexting her unless she contacts me first. I don't know, hm...

It sucks that I'm not the one spinning plates, but it's all good. I will be able to do that soon.
 

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She doesnt love you, she is infactuated with you....nows your chance, go for the gold. Get her back to your place before it wears off....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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