"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl I like says i'm mouthy
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I said so you think i'm mouthy huh? (someone had told me she said it) she says to me: you are mouthy.TheEdgeOf said:But seriously, it really depends on the context in which she said it and also how she said it. But from my experience, no it's not a good sign.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think she was joking.TheEdgeOf said:Wow, with so much context, it's surprising that I still can't find an answer.
Dude, I'll just give a point from how I live
Edge's rule of Pick Up Artistry #24;
If she's joking, joke back, if she's not, f*ck her
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Not sure without the context.
Whatever the case, proceed and see where she stands on it. Get more information.
Bonafide
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Kuwi said:I'm thinking thats not a good sign, and she probably doesn't like me. What do you think?
What I think is that you are developing a case of oneitis. If a girl says something like that and means it, you need to see it as a control tool.
She is claiming the power and doesn't respect you as a man. She is taking the dominant almost parental role instead of being submissive.
Also if you like this type of agressive shemale then knock yourself out.
If it was me I would of asked her what she ment by that then asked her if she thought she was all that to even say some crazy wacko thing like that to me.
For me it would of killed my attraction down to 0. Many years ago when I was young I had girls call me a pest.
They took the higher position instead of respecting my manhood and ability to fvck the shyt out of them because they didn't see me in that light.
I was immature back then and not in full possession of my masculinity. I was living a role of the shy meek guy.
Until I got smart and dropped that facade.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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