"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girl I like says i'm mouthy
- Thread starter Kuwi
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I said so you think i'm mouthy huh? (someone had told me she said it) she says to me: you are mouthy.TheEdgeOf said:But seriously, it really depends on the context in which she said it and also how she said it. But from my experience, no it's not a good sign.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I think she was joking.TheEdgeOf said:Wow, with so much context, it's surprising that I still can't find an answer.
Dude, I'll just give a point from how I live
Edge's rule of Pick Up Artistry #24;
If she's joking, joke back, if she's not, f*ck her
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Not sure without the context.
Whatever the case, proceed and see where she stands on it. Get more information.
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Kuwi said:I'm thinking thats not a good sign, and she probably doesn't like me. What do you think?
What I think is that you are developing a case of oneitis. If a girl says something like that and means it, you need to see it as a control tool.
She is claiming the power and doesn't respect you as a man. She is taking the dominant almost parental role instead of being submissive.
Also if you like this type of agressive shemale then knock yourself out.
If it was me I would of asked her what she ment by that then asked her if she thought she was all that to even say some crazy wacko thing like that to me.
For me it would of killed my attraction down to 0. Many years ago when I was young I had girls call me a pest.
They took the higher position instead of respecting my manhood and ability to fvck the shyt out of them because they didn't see me in that light.
I was immature back then and not in full possession of my masculinity. I was living a role of the shy meek guy.
Until I got smart and dropped that facade.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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