"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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girl I like is mad at me, no idea why

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First time posting here but this seems like the right place.

So I have tried asking this girl out twice before at the end of last semester(college) so she knows I like her. So far this semester I haven't tried anything aside from being friendly and she would usually have a big smile when she saw me and is normally very nice. A few weeks ago she just suddenly started acting like shes mad at me. I hadn't really talked to her in a couple weeks so I have no idea why shes mad.

She seemed to be trying to be really obvious about it too. I first noticed when I looked at her as she walked into class and she glanced at me then looked straight forward as she walked by and started talking to this other guy with her back facing me. A week later she did almost the exact same thing.

I had no idea why so I didn't say anything about it and decided to text her a couple days later about school stuff. I was being pretty friendly and she seemed pretty friendly even saying goodnight with a :) at the end. Next day I sit next to her and some other people before class and shes acting very cold toward me. I asked her if shes done the homework and without turning her head she said no in a *****y tone.

I havn't really talked to her the past couple weeks but she is definitely trying to avoid me. I've been acting like I'm pissed(I kinda am) and/or have been trying to ignore her. Haven't talked to her ether. During class she definitely keeps glancing at me. I'm really not sure whats going on but I'm getting tried of waiting. Trying to decide if I should try texting her or something.

That got kinda long. Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She's playing games and is being an attention whóre . You already asked her out twice and she refused. Who cares what she is acting like, her time has passed. Act friendly, but indifferent. Talk to other chicks in front of her. If she wanted to go out with you/bang you she would of done it the first 2 times.

Any further pursuit will give her more power and set you in to creepy-desperate-mode. Hit the Next button on this one, man.
 
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yeah that's pretty much what I've been telling myself and trying to do. I've just been having trouble getting her out of my head. thanks man
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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that's AW for sure. Ignore her and watch her come around for another attention fix. The trick here is to double everything in return to what she is doing to you. She is avoiding you, eh? Well, go out of your way to not see her. When games like this start, you have already lost.
 
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