"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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girl I like is mad at me, no idea why

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First time posting here but this seems like the right place.

So I have tried asking this girl out twice before at the end of last semester(college) so she knows I like her. So far this semester I haven't tried anything aside from being friendly and she would usually have a big smile when she saw me and is normally very nice. A few weeks ago she just suddenly started acting like shes mad at me. I hadn't really talked to her in a couple weeks so I have no idea why shes mad.

She seemed to be trying to be really obvious about it too. I first noticed when I looked at her as she walked into class and she glanced at me then looked straight forward as she walked by and started talking to this other guy with her back facing me. A week later she did almost the exact same thing.

I had no idea why so I didn't say anything about it and decided to text her a couple days later about school stuff. I was being pretty friendly and she seemed pretty friendly even saying goodnight with a :) at the end. Next day I sit next to her and some other people before class and shes acting very cold toward me. I asked her if shes done the homework and without turning her head she said no in a *****y tone.

I havn't really talked to her the past couple weeks but she is definitely trying to avoid me. I've been acting like I'm pissed(I kinda am) and/or have been trying to ignore her. Haven't talked to her ether. During class she definitely keeps glancing at me. I'm really not sure whats going on but I'm getting tried of waiting. Trying to decide if I should try texting her or something.

That got kinda long. Any advice would be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's playing games and is being an attention whóre . You already asked her out twice and she refused. Who cares what she is acting like, her time has passed. Act friendly, but indifferent. Talk to other chicks in front of her. If she wanted to go out with you/bang you she would of done it the first 2 times.

Any further pursuit will give her more power and set you in to creepy-desperate-mode. Hit the Next button on this one, man.
 
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yeah that's pretty much what I've been telling myself and trying to do. I've just been having trouble getting her out of my head. thanks man
 

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that's AW for sure. Ignore her and watch her come around for another attention fix. The trick here is to double everything in return to what she is doing to you. She is avoiding you, eh? Well, go out of your way to not see her. When games like this start, you have already lost.
 
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