"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl I like clearly thinks I'm a player. Bad thing?

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Lol she now thinks I'm like Tyrion and Ned Stark from Game of Thrones.


She thinks I'm the former because he ****s every girl around, and Ned because he likes what's 'just'.


Don't know what to think about this.

I know she probably thinks I'm a player, though, she certainly alludes to that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No worries, be simple, fun and sweet. Let her wonder and be mystery never say yeah I am.
 
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TheGambino said:
No worries, be simple, fun and sweet. Let her wonder and be mystery never say yeah I am.
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So you don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, do you?

She does tease me quite a lot about it.
 
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Desdinova said:
It's not a bad thing. Women like the challenge of "taming" their men. Just don't let her think it bothers you. If anything, show her you wear that badge and let your sexual desires flow. She'll love it.
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Is it a sign she likes me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Advice from the old lady:

Perhaps. Own who you are without apology.

As long as she's playful about it (as opposed to neurotic or insecure) you're good.

Just enjoy each other & let things develop organically. Good things happen existing in the present. No need to create paralysis of analysis here.
 
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Not a bad thing at all. Just be playful and it will be fine.
 
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