"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl I like clearly thinks I'm a player. Bad thing?

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Lol she now thinks I'm like Tyrion and Ned Stark from Game of Thrones.


She thinks I'm the former because he ****s every girl around, and Ned because he likes what's 'just'.


Don't know what to think about this.

I know she probably thinks I'm a player, though, she certainly alludes to that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No worries, be simple, fun and sweet. Let her wonder and be mystery never say yeah I am.
 
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TheGambino said:
No worries, be simple, fun and sweet. Let her wonder and be mystery never say yeah I am.
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So you don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, do you?

She does tease me quite a lot about it.
 
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Desdinova said:
It's not a bad thing. Women like the challenge of "taming" their men. Just don't let her think it bothers you. If anything, show her you wear that badge and let your sexual desires flow. She'll love it.
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Is it a sign she likes me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Advice from the old lady:

Perhaps. Own who you are without apology.

As long as she's playful about it (as opposed to neurotic or insecure) you're good.

Just enjoy each other & let things develop organically. Good things happen existing in the present. No need to create paralysis of analysis here.
 
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Not a bad thing at all. Just be playful and it will be fine.
 
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