"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl I like clearly thinks I'm a player. Bad thing?

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Lol she now thinks I'm like Tyrion and Ned Stark from Game of Thrones.


She thinks I'm the former because he ****s every girl around, and Ned because he likes what's 'just'.


Don't know what to think about this.

I know she probably thinks I'm a player, though, she certainly alludes to that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No worries, be simple, fun and sweet. Let her wonder and be mystery never say yeah I am.
 
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TheGambino said:
No worries, be simple, fun and sweet. Let her wonder and be mystery never say yeah I am.
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So you don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, do you?

She does tease me quite a lot about it.
 
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Desdinova said:
It's not a bad thing. Women like the challenge of "taming" their men. Just don't let her think it bothers you. If anything, show her you wear that badge and let your sexual desires flow. She'll love it.
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Is it a sign she likes me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice from the old lady:

Perhaps. Own who you are without apology.

As long as she's playful about it (as opposed to neurotic or insecure) you're good.

Just enjoy each other & let things develop organically. Good things happen existing in the present. No need to create paralysis of analysis here.
 
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Not a bad thing at all. Just be playful and it will be fine.
 
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