"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay i'm a senior in high school and there is this girl that i like and i see once or twice a week usually at a youth group i go to. I've known her for a while and i really like her and i'm pretty sure she likes me(my friends that talk to her all the the time have also said she does). Right now we are just good friends but i would like to be more than that with her. What are some specific things i could do right now to make this happen?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Start by getting her phone#. then set up a date and move from there.
 
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i already have her number... i've known her for a while and we are close friends
 
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Originally posted by LikeDat292
i already have her number... i've known her for a while and we are close friends
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Then call her and ask her out.

Please read the bible as well.
 
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Invite her somewhere over the weekend.
Honestly, is this so complicated?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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