"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LikeDat292

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Okay i'm a senior in high school and there is this girl that i like and i see once or twice a week usually at a youth group i go to. I've known her for a while and i really like her and i'm pretty sure she likes me(my friends that talk to her all the the time have also said she does). Right now we are just good friends but i would like to be more than that with her. What are some specific things i could do right now to make this happen?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HHloser2

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Start by getting her phone#. then set up a date and move from there.
 

LikeDat292

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i already have her number... i've known her for a while and we are close friends
 

NEWBIE101

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Originally posted by LikeDat292
i already have her number... i've known her for a while and we are close friends
Then call her and ask her out.

Please read the bible as well.
 

LikRetsam

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Invite her somewhere over the weekend.
Honestly, is this so complicated?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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