"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl I have my eye on invited me to her party...
- Thread starter kalash74
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
I am thinking of asking her to hang out on friday. One of her best friends lives very near to me, would it be a good idea to say that friend can come too so she doesn't feel uncomfortable about it? I plan on having at least one of my friends come with too.
OK, when you are at a party, note the word PARTY, assuming people are drinking that is. That means that since it's a party, you can do rediculous things you wouldn't normally do. You can hook up with 5 different girls if you want.
Heres my advice of the day: Get a way to stay out all night, and go to a college party. Any college party. It doesn't matter if you don't know a single person there, you can always bullsh it if you need to. Get drunk, talk to people, watch other guys that know what they are doing. Repeat that like 20 times and you will be awesome at quick hook ups. I promise.
As far as starting a relationship... Find someone that is good at them and talk to them about it. You gotta hear it from the people that know what they are doing.
DON'T GIVE UP!!!! KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP TRYING!!
dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
back in my afc days not doing anything is EXACTLY what i would have done no joke whne she moved drinks and and said it warmer over here i guarntee u i wouldve thought to myself "if i move over there ill bet she will reject me and look at me like im a freak"art of said:Not gonna lie i don't know how you bailed out on that one, but maybe you can turn it around. Just pull a 180 on her. You already attracted her enough for her to invite you and naturaly probly gave off a bit of an anxious vibe, then at the party you should little interest or assertiveness. Only way your turning this around now is to be very forward with her and ask her out on a date. She might just be confused enough to say yes
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.