"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl I called number (dude pick ups), need quick advice please

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Ok,

I finally managed to get a number from an attractive HB8.

We had a long conversation last night, and talked for 30
minutes on the phone.

She said to call me tomorrow and she will let me know when shes
free.

Today when I called her home number, some dude picks up the phone,
he says "hello", "who is this".

I was confused so I said "Hi is so and so there".

Then I think I hung up at that point because I was confused.

Then I called her cellphone, she says "I am watching a movie now".

I asked her if I could call her later, she said "sure".

What do I do, quick adviced needed.

It seemed like the guy was mad or something, what could be going on here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My thoughts:

- Do nothing, it sounds like her interest level is low, and the guy thing doesn't sound too promising (although that can't be confirmed yet).

- Wait for her to call, act indifferently and try pry some info on the guy thing from her.

- Ask her outright. I don't like this option as much, as it has AFC overtones, but it could be phrased in such a way as to avoid that.

Good lick.
 
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Get agro-alpha on him!

Tell him "I'm gonna kick your mo'phuckin ass if you don't put on so-and-so!

Then patiently wait for her and talk as if nothing happened. Feel free to sip a martini any time during the phone call.
 
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I'm thinking in future situations if I call an HB's number and a guy picks up, it's best to just hang up right away without saying anything?
 
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Let's assume you aren't lying to us over the internet -

Why the F*CK would you call her home number? You can't be this stupid.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BeginningDJ said:
Let's assume you aren't lying to us over the internet -

Why the F*CK would you call her home number? You can't be this stupid.
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Shes lives in the basement and her cellphone reception isn't that great.
Did i mess things up?
 
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gspshields2 said:
Shes lives in the basement and her cellphone reception isn't that great.
Did i mess things up?
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Take a photo of yourself holding today's newspaper. Make sure we can see the date on it.

Holy f*cking Jesus.
 
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