"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl I called number (dude pick ups), need quick advice please

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Ok,

I finally managed to get a number from an attractive HB8.

We had a long conversation last night, and talked for 30
minutes on the phone.

She said to call me tomorrow and she will let me know when shes
free.

Today when I called her home number, some dude picks up the phone,
he says "hello", "who is this".

I was confused so I said "Hi is so and so there".

Then I think I hung up at that point because I was confused.

Then I called her cellphone, she says "I am watching a movie now".

I asked her if I could call her later, she said "sure".

What do I do, quick adviced needed.

It seemed like the guy was mad or something, what could be going on here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My thoughts:

- Do nothing, it sounds like her interest level is low, and the guy thing doesn't sound too promising (although that can't be confirmed yet).

- Wait for her to call, act indifferently and try pry some info on the guy thing from her.

- Ask her outright. I don't like this option as much, as it has AFC overtones, but it could be phrased in such a way as to avoid that.

Good lick.
 
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Get agro-alpha on him!

Tell him "I'm gonna kick your mo'phuckin ass if you don't put on so-and-so!

Then patiently wait for her and talk as if nothing happened. Feel free to sip a martini any time during the phone call.
 
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I'm thinking in future situations if I call an HB's number and a guy picks up, it's best to just hang up right away without saying anything?
 
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Let's assume you aren't lying to us over the internet -

Why the F*CK would you call her home number? You can't be this stupid.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BeginningDJ said:
Let's assume you aren't lying to us over the internet -

Why the F*CK would you call her home number? You can't be this stupid.
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Shes lives in the basement and her cellphone reception isn't that great.
Did i mess things up?
 
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gspshields2 said:
Shes lives in the basement and her cellphone reception isn't that great.
Did i mess things up?
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Take a photo of yourself holding today's newspaper. Make sure we can see the date on it.

Holy f*cking Jesus.
 
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