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Girl I called number (dude pick ups), need quick advice please

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Ok,

I finally managed to get a number from an attractive HB8.

We had a long conversation last night, and talked for 30
minutes on the phone.

She said to call me tomorrow and she will let me know when shes
free.

Today when I called her home number, some dude picks up the phone,
he says "hello", "who is this".

I was confused so I said "Hi is so and so there".

Then I think I hung up at that point because I was confused.

Then I called her cellphone, she says "I am watching a movie now".

I asked her if I could call her later, she said "sure".

What do I do, quick adviced needed.

It seemed like the guy was mad or something, what could be going on here.
 

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My thoughts:

- Do nothing, it sounds like her interest level is low, and the guy thing doesn't sound too promising (although that can't be confirmed yet).

- Wait for her to call, act indifferently and try pry some info on the guy thing from her.

- Ask her outright. I don't like this option as much, as it has AFC overtones, but it could be phrased in such a way as to avoid that.

Good lick.
 
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Get agro-alpha on him!

Tell him "I'm gonna kick your mo'phuckin ass if you don't put on so-and-so!

Then patiently wait for her and talk as if nothing happened. Feel free to sip a martini any time during the phone call.
 
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I'm thinking in future situations if I call an HB's number and a guy picks up, it's best to just hang up right away without saying anything?
 
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Let's assume you aren't lying to us over the internet -

Why the F*CK would you call her home number? You can't be this stupid.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BeginningDJ said:
Let's assume you aren't lying to us over the internet -

Why the F*CK would you call her home number? You can't be this stupid.
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Shes lives in the basement and her cellphone reception isn't that great.
Did i mess things up?
 
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gspshields2 said:
Shes lives in the basement and her cellphone reception isn't that great.
Did i mess things up?
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Take a photo of yourself holding today's newspaper. Make sure we can see the date on it.

Holy f*cking Jesus.
 
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