"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl I barely even know pushes the issue with me; Also older now, lower sex drive.

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Ok guys, within the past week, this redhead blue-eyed girl has been so forward with me and I barely even know the girl (just through business). She says, "I love you, I love you, I love you..." and today, "My love...My love..."

She bent over the other day unknowingly revealing her 'S' tatoo on her lower back. She's Really aggressive with me and she's probably about 10 years younger than me.

On another note, I've been working my A S S off for the past month or so. Really no time to date or think about sex or get horny except when this redhead recently pushed the issue. She reminded me that I'm male and that I should be pursuing women with greater drive.

I'm starting to feel that sex is just a chore now only to please the woman and is no longer enjoyable to me any more. I guess I'm just getting older. Sux.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Poonani Maker said:
Ok guys, within the past week, this redhead blue-eyed girl has been so forward with me and I barely even know the girl (just through business). She says, "I love you, I love you, I love you..." and today, "My love...My love..."

She bent over the other day unknowingly revealing her 'S' tatoo on her lower back. She's Really aggressive with me and she's probably about 10 years younger than me.

On another note, I've been working my A S S off for the past month or so. Really no time to date or think about sex or get horny except when this redhead recently pushed the issue. She reminded me that I'm male and that I should be pursuing women with greater drive.

I'm starting to feel that sex is just a chore now only to please the woman and is no longer enjoyable to me any more. I guess I'm just getting older. Sux.
Rock on! Nothing wrong with the ego up in here.
 

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toddlips said:
Pass her over to me, bro! I'll wear her out for ya'!
what we begging for bvtches now? don't be a dvck rider. Bag ya own hoes!

You loose cool points homie! -20 pts :down:

Poonani:Viagra and Cialis work but you don't suffer ED. At least you haven't said that much. Think about the diet you're on and what you may do to improve upon it. Also, exercising also helps to boost Testosterone levels.
Vitamin C in (OJ) and foods like asparagus, tomatoes, and oysters are benificial if you can bare to eat stuff like that. Hope this helps!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Try reposting this in The Mature Man sub-forum. You'll have a better chance of finding guys who know what you're talking about.

Also, be very careful of somebody who tells you she loves you that early and often, especially if you haven't already slept with her. Big red flag for neediness.
 

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abcd_z said:
Try reposting this in The Mature Man sub-forum. You'll have a better chance of finding guys who know what you're talking about.

Also, be very careful of somebody who tells you she loves you that early and often, especially if you haven't already slept with her. Big red flag for neediness.
heh, well there's no doubt about that, she has neediness written all over her face. And toddlips, I've thought about 'passing her off' to a bro of mine much more her age who already has a daughter out of wedlock and no serious relationships at the moment. He's really struggling trying to get me to go with him to an Elite private Halloween party last night, where only the rich and famous are 'invited' to. Too bad for him I was already gone on the way home or I would have joined in on the snow sniffing parade and probably would have had a crazy crack fcking night.

I mentioned to him this dumb redhead I met this past week. Next time I'll see if I can set these two lost ones up.

And regarding Viagra, I'm not unable to perform the act, just less desirous being so tired and all after work. I've been so detached from fvcking that my mind and my d1ck are completely separated now. I'm all about making money now, but for what?? I see women now as only baby-makers, not as pleasure machines.
 
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