"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl I barely even know pushes the issue with me; Also older now, lower sex drive.

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Ok guys, within the past week, this redhead blue-eyed girl has been so forward with me and I barely even know the girl (just through business). She says, "I love you, I love you, I love you..." and today, "My love...My love..."

She bent over the other day unknowingly revealing her 'S' tatoo on her lower back. She's Really aggressive with me and she's probably about 10 years younger than me.

On another note, I've been working my A S S off for the past month or so. Really no time to date or think about sex or get horny except when this redhead recently pushed the issue. She reminded me that I'm male and that I should be pursuing women with greater drive.

I'm starting to feel that sex is just a chore now only to please the woman and is no longer enjoyable to me any more. I guess I'm just getting older. Sux.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Poonani Maker said:
Ok guys, within the past week, this redhead blue-eyed girl has been so forward with me and I barely even know the girl (just through business). She says, "I love you, I love you, I love you..." and today, "My love...My love..."

She bent over the other day unknowingly revealing her 'S' tatoo on her lower back. She's Really aggressive with me and she's probably about 10 years younger than me.

On another note, I've been working my A S S off for the past month or so. Really no time to date or think about sex or get horny except when this redhead recently pushed the issue. She reminded me that I'm male and that I should be pursuing women with greater drive.

I'm starting to feel that sex is just a chore now only to please the woman and is no longer enjoyable to me any more. I guess I'm just getting older. Sux.
Rock on! Nothing wrong with the ego up in here.
 

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toddlips said:
Pass her over to me, bro! I'll wear her out for ya'!
what we begging for bvtches now? don't be a dvck rider. Bag ya own hoes!

You loose cool points homie! -20 pts :down:

Poonani:Viagra and Cialis work but you don't suffer ED. At least you haven't said that much. Think about the diet you're on and what you may do to improve upon it. Also, exercising also helps to boost Testosterone levels.
Vitamin C in (OJ) and foods like asparagus, tomatoes, and oysters are benificial if you can bare to eat stuff like that. Hope this helps!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Try reposting this in The Mature Man sub-forum. You'll have a better chance of finding guys who know what you're talking about.

Also, be very careful of somebody who tells you she loves you that early and often, especially if you haven't already slept with her. Big red flag for neediness.
 

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abcd_z said:
Try reposting this in The Mature Man sub-forum. You'll have a better chance of finding guys who know what you're talking about.

Also, be very careful of somebody who tells you she loves you that early and often, especially if you haven't already slept with her. Big red flag for neediness.
heh, well there's no doubt about that, she has neediness written all over her face. And toddlips, I've thought about 'passing her off' to a bro of mine much more her age who already has a daughter out of wedlock and no serious relationships at the moment. He's really struggling trying to get me to go with him to an Elite private Halloween party last night, where only the rich and famous are 'invited' to. Too bad for him I was already gone on the way home or I would have joined in on the snow sniffing parade and probably would have had a crazy crack fcking night.

I mentioned to him this dumb redhead I met this past week. Next time I'll see if I can set these two lost ones up.

And regarding Viagra, I'm not unable to perform the act, just less desirous being so tired and all after work. I've been so detached from fvcking that my mind and my d1ck are completely separated now. I'm all about making money now, but for what?? I see women now as only baby-makers, not as pleasure machines.
 
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