"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl I asked out acts like nothing happened..

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A lot of females will use you for attention nowadays.

It seems like you almost fell into her trap. Good thing you didn't respond.

Using rebuttal after a rejection, anything other than a yes is a rejection, is pointless. It doesn't matter what you say, it shows that you're interested and you probably lost at that point.

Times have changed... Using rebuttals will rarely if ever work. Just not responding and asking them out a week later is a much better strategy now.

If she was really interested then she wouldn't test you. Women don't 'test men by pretending to flake or be busy' they test us through normal conversations.

You see her in real life scenarios anyways. Social circle game is easy, just stick to playful flirting in group situations. Others will catch on and recommend you/ask questions.

Edit:

Just saw that you did exactly what I would have done, not responded and waited a few days/a week later. Now if she actually shows up is the real indication of interest. Don't get ahead of yourself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Its like saying "she said my eyes is blue" she must be interested in me a lot! .. Matter of fact its nothing for you there mate.
 
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