"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl I am sleeping with gets TOO wet

CantTouchMyStyle

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This is odd and a first.

I am seeing a 21 year old who during sex gets extremely wet. Wet to the point their is like zero friction. When using a condom I literally cannot feel anything. I had to wash my sheets today, because she literally drenched them.

We have now had sex about 4-5x and it is not enjoyable at all. When she is on top - my penis consistently slips out of her. I am not small (I've had sex with over 15 partners - NEVER encountered this). She has limited sexual experience and is not loose.

Last night, after a marathon session I just got so frustrated I took off the condom and went bareback. She commented that it felt so MUCH better, because there was actual friction. However, I cannot even describe about how slippery it gets. The noise is even ridiculous.

We had sex for hours last night and I could not ***. I literally wanted to cry. I am actually rather fond of this girl, but this is like a ridiculous obstacle and annoying issue.

She is not on birth control either, so, hitting it bareback is not an option until she is.

Has anyone ever encountered this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zinc4

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just go bareback and pull out before you *** and turn on some music....yes, i have encountered it and yes it made me lose sexual interest quickly...you feel like you are being peed on gradually and steadily...but bareback can be really fun like a slip and slide with a little friction...

if you can still go for hours with her then your sexual interest is still pretty healthy i would assume...
 

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I wished I had your chick, this girl I'm banging after awhile her pu$$ gets dry and it starts to make my penis sore from the dryness
 

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Sounds awesome!

I had a gf like this once and at first it seemed like a problem. Over time though I realized that she was always wet and ready to go anywhere anytime. She also learned to use her vaginal muscles for more stimulation. I also learned certain positions worked better and I could literally pound away and she loved it.

You may need a woman who is dry as the desert to realize what you have here.
 

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Buy some Trojan warming condoms. I found them to have a lubricant that actually gets sort of gummy, though that's an exaggeration. I thought they increased friction pretty nicely. It's worth a try.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Try hittin it from behind while spooning. IME that's the best position for a sloppy vag. It'll give you the most friction plus her excess "lube" will go on her, not you....but if that still doesn't work, you might have to stick it in her butt.
 

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Girls who get as wet as the girl you describe.... Are perfect candidates for a fisting... Field tested....

Just saying...
 

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Is she a squirter? That's my question. If so, get an umbrella and have fun with it.
 

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I've got some SCUBA gear I might be willing to sell.
 

CantTouchMyStyle

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She is coming over in a bit. Will have an update on this later.

However, anal is not totally out of the question, but my attempts have been rebuffed thus far. LOL.

Debating whether or not to use a condom. :O

Also, will probably put up a FR of how I reeled this one in. Some of my finest work!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Atom Smasher

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I'm telling ya, man, those Trojan "warm" condoms might really have done the trick. The lube is specially made to increase friction and generate warmth.

Have her read this thread and send her out to the drug store. ;)
 

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zinc4 said:
just go bareback and pull out before you *** and turn on some music....yes, i have encountered it and yes it made me lose sexual interest quickly...you feel like you are being peed on gradually and steadily...but bareback can be really fun like a slip and slide with a little friction...

if you can still go for hours with her then your sexual interest is still pretty healthy i would assume...
This is a stupid idea.
Pre-*** can get chicks preggo.
 

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Slickster said:
You may need a woman who is dry as the desert to realize what you have here.
When you've got a woman who's almost always dry and refuses to use lube (because she wants to keep her body pure of chemicals) then you thank God when you end up with one who's in danger of dehydration.
 
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Is the problem with you getting off?

Put her in missionary and go DEEP in her and start jack-hammering it, thrust will minimal outing as possible.
 

zinc4

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Sneevox said:
This is a stupid idea.
Pre-*** can get chicks preggo.

Maybe it is, but i have never had any issues. Like you have never banged a girl without a condom before.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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We went out to eat last night, got a red box, and went back to my place.

She was teasing the fvck out of me, telling me we were watching the movie first. However, she was completely naked.

I was so frustrated after not getting off the last time after having sex for two hours when we eventually started banging I came rather quick. Like 10 minutes in. She was kind of shocked, lol. When I took the condom off, she was like, "Why did you take it off?" LOL. And then it was all over her tits and she got the idea.

We went again shortly after, she was riding me and it literally felt like I had a puddle of water on my stomach. By the time we were done, I was drenched literally up to my neck. I can't describe it anyway else.

There is a serious lack of friction and I almost went soft at one point. I was using a towel to wipe my **** off and her vagina, but it didn't help too much.

Slightly frustrating, but at least I got two nuts this time.:yes: :yes:
 

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Kegels. Get her off a couple times and let it drip down and stick it in her ass.
 
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