"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl I am Seeing..V-day

LegendBoy

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I have been talking to this girl for 2months but been seeing each other for a week.

The situation we were talking on msn. She had 2 go before she went i popped the question of getting her before school and for her miss a class, didn't mention the whole valentine day thing but that was d point.. She though about it and said it was 2 hard and then she had to go, she gave her msn kisses and wateva..

Make matters worst she just got off msn.

What am I suppose to do? Ring her at school to see her again during that day? Not see her? Like what are my options?? If I don't see her she might be like u didnt even make effort to see me on v-day etc.
not sure what 2 do with this bi tch.:box: :box:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PectoralisMajor

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RE:She thought about it and said it was 2 hard and then she had to go

There's your answer mate...2 hard = current issues in her life / lack of interest. I should ask why you were wanting her to skip class - bad move, and also why its taken however long to meet up - very slow moves.

Dont bother contacting her again and dissapear from msn - your wasting your time with this one I guarantee..you wont be seeing her Val day....
 

WC2

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You asked her to skip a class? Even if she is interested in you, that doesn't mean she will necessarily skip class and drop everything for you. What's with guys and talking on MSN all the time? A phone call is much more personable and to the point. MSN is OK once in awhile (maybe once or even twice a week) to drop a few lines, but everyday just wears out the attraction sometimes.
 

LegendBoy

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@ pectoralis major.. When I meant talking.. I meant seeing each other in person without anything intimate.. Seeing each other means we rnt official but kind of exlusive and have kissed and that kind of stufff. She is a really good girl. Dad doctor mum teacher etc..
 

PectoralisMajor

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if you have seen her already and kissed, I take back what was said.

Asking her to skip class was a no no unless you already know she does that kind of thing. You cornered her and she couldnt say yes.

Seeing as its val day and you dont have any plans, she's prolly already assuming its off. my girl has known for example for the last 3 weeks we're up to something. Girls like the excitement of looking forward to things.

anyway moving forward, phone her and try to set something up asap before she gets woo'd be some other guy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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