"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl I am Seeing..V-day

LegendBoy

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I have been talking to this girl for 2months but been seeing each other for a week.

The situation we were talking on msn. She had 2 go before she went i popped the question of getting her before school and for her miss a class, didn't mention the whole valentine day thing but that was d point.. She though about it and said it was 2 hard and then she had to go, she gave her msn kisses and wateva..

Make matters worst she just got off msn.

What am I suppose to do? Ring her at school to see her again during that day? Not see her? Like what are my options?? If I don't see her she might be like u didnt even make effort to see me on v-day etc.
not sure what 2 do with this bi tch.:box: :box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PectoralisMajor

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RE:She thought about it and said it was 2 hard and then she had to go

There's your answer mate...2 hard = current issues in her life / lack of interest. I should ask why you were wanting her to skip class - bad move, and also why its taken however long to meet up - very slow moves.

Dont bother contacting her again and dissapear from msn - your wasting your time with this one I guarantee..you wont be seeing her Val day....
 

WC2

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You asked her to skip a class? Even if she is interested in you, that doesn't mean she will necessarily skip class and drop everything for you. What's with guys and talking on MSN all the time? A phone call is much more personable and to the point. MSN is OK once in awhile (maybe once or even twice a week) to drop a few lines, but everyday just wears out the attraction sometimes.
 

LegendBoy

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@ pectoralis major.. When I meant talking.. I meant seeing each other in person without anything intimate.. Seeing each other means we rnt official but kind of exlusive and have kissed and that kind of stufff. She is a really good girl. Dad doctor mum teacher etc..
 

PectoralisMajor

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if you have seen her already and kissed, I take back what was said.

Asking her to skip class was a no no unless you already know she does that kind of thing. You cornered her and she couldnt say yes.

Seeing as its val day and you dont have any plans, she's prolly already assuming its off. my girl has known for example for the last 3 weeks we're up to something. Girls like the excitement of looking forward to things.

anyway moving forward, phone her and try to set something up asap before she gets woo'd be some other guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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