"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl I am Seeing..V-day

LegendBoy

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I have been talking to this girl for 2months but been seeing each other for a week.

The situation we were talking on msn. She had 2 go before she went i popped the question of getting her before school and for her miss a class, didn't mention the whole valentine day thing but that was d point.. She though about it and said it was 2 hard and then she had to go, she gave her msn kisses and wateva..

Make matters worst she just got off msn.

What am I suppose to do? Ring her at school to see her again during that day? Not see her? Like what are my options?? If I don't see her she might be like u didnt even make effort to see me on v-day etc.
not sure what 2 do with this bi tch.:box: :box:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PectoralisMajor

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RE:She thought about it and said it was 2 hard and then she had to go

There's your answer mate...2 hard = current issues in her life / lack of interest. I should ask why you were wanting her to skip class - bad move, and also why its taken however long to meet up - very slow moves.

Dont bother contacting her again and dissapear from msn - your wasting your time with this one I guarantee..you wont be seeing her Val day....
 

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You asked her to skip a class? Even if she is interested in you, that doesn't mean she will necessarily skip class and drop everything for you. What's with guys and talking on MSN all the time? A phone call is much more personable and to the point. MSN is OK once in awhile (maybe once or even twice a week) to drop a few lines, but everyday just wears out the attraction sometimes.
 

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@ pectoralis major.. When I meant talking.. I meant seeing each other in person without anything intimate.. Seeing each other means we rnt official but kind of exlusive and have kissed and that kind of stufff. She is a really good girl. Dad doctor mum teacher etc..
 

PectoralisMajor

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if you have seen her already and kissed, I take back what was said.

Asking her to skip class was a no no unless you already know she does that kind of thing. You cornered her and she couldnt say yes.

Seeing as its val day and you dont have any plans, she's prolly already assuming its off. my girl has known for example for the last 3 weeks we're up to something. Girls like the excitement of looking forward to things.

anyway moving forward, phone her and try to set something up asap before she gets woo'd be some other guy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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