"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl I am Seeing.. SAYS IM GOING 2 FAST.

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Background info: This girl we been seeing each other for a week. Known each other for couple of months. Shes 16 im 19, which is legal and we r both turkish..

She said 2 me today she thinks im taking things 2 fast and that she doesnt want a relationship at the moment. People on sosuave say when a girl says she dont want a relationship it means she doesn't want one with u. But I dont quite understand that.

Because she said to me she likes me can't be in a relationship at the moment. Thereafter offerered to see me tomorow afternoon and night when her parents go out. Also not a **** buddy situation we only kissed and mild touching.

Im baboozled by what she said, my reaction was ye i dont want to take it fast either.

Just why would a girl say this ?

Another thing is I asked her why she thinks like this and she said my expectations of her in a relationship... mm ok den?

thoughts guys?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Shes a virgin so she won't be ****ing me, at least for a while. Anyone know why she wouldn't want a relationship i am just curious.
 
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LegendBoy said:
Shes a virgin so she won't be ****ing me, at least for a while. Anyone know why she wouldn't want a relationship i am just curious.
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LegendBoy.. that's a good name you're still obviously a boy. Why do you want a relationship after 1 week? This girl is 16 but obviously a little bit more mature than you when it comes to this type of thing. Relationships are based off attraction and vibing. It's not like the movies where two people get together and just start dating because it's convenient. You can't force a woman to be in love, she must fall in love. Besides that, it takes a lot longer than a week to determine whether they are compatible with you. It takes a lot longer. This is why men usually **** women for at least a month before he decides to date her (or usually before she pops the question).

So take a step back, give her space, and salvage any interest she has in you atm. Tell her that it's fine you're not looking for a relationship and you were about to say the same thing to her. Cease contact. Wait till she calls you. Date other girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just tell her...

Baby, im not going 2 fast... your just going 2 slow.
 
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