"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl I am Seeing.. SAYS IM GOING 2 FAST.

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Background info: This girl we been seeing each other for a week. Known each other for couple of months. Shes 16 im 19, which is legal and we r both turkish..

She said 2 me today she thinks im taking things 2 fast and that she doesnt want a relationship at the moment. People on sosuave say when a girl says she dont want a relationship it means she doesn't want one with u. But I dont quite understand that.

Because she said to me she likes me can't be in a relationship at the moment. Thereafter offerered to see me tomorow afternoon and night when her parents go out. Also not a **** buddy situation we only kissed and mild touching.

Im baboozled by what she said, my reaction was ye i dont want to take it fast either.

Just why would a girl say this ?

Another thing is I asked her why she thinks like this and she said my expectations of her in a relationship... mm ok den?

thoughts guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LegendBoy

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Shes a virgin so she won't be ****ing me, at least for a while. Anyone know why she wouldn't want a relationship i am just curious.
 
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LegendBoy said:
Shes a virgin so she won't be ****ing me, at least for a while. Anyone know why she wouldn't want a relationship i am just curious.
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LegendBoy.. that's a good name you're still obviously a boy. Why do you want a relationship after 1 week? This girl is 16 but obviously a little bit more mature than you when it comes to this type of thing. Relationships are based off attraction and vibing. It's not like the movies where two people get together and just start dating because it's convenient. You can't force a woman to be in love, she must fall in love. Besides that, it takes a lot longer than a week to determine whether they are compatible with you. It takes a lot longer. This is why men usually **** women for at least a month before he decides to date her (or usually before she pops the question).

So take a step back, give her space, and salvage any interest she has in you atm. Tell her that it's fine you're not looking for a relationship and you were about to say the same thing to her. Cease contact. Wait till she calls you. Date other girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just tell her...

Baby, im not going 2 fast... your just going 2 slow.
 
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