"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl I am Seeing.. SAYS IM GOING 2 FAST.

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LegendBoy

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Background info: This girl we been seeing each other for a week. Known each other for couple of months. Shes 16 im 19, which is legal and we r both turkish..

She said 2 me today she thinks im taking things 2 fast and that she doesnt want a relationship at the moment. People on sosuave say when a girl says she dont want a relationship it means she doesn't want one with u. But I dont quite understand that.

Because she said to me she likes me can't be in a relationship at the moment. Thereafter offerered to see me tomorow afternoon and night when her parents go out. Also not a **** buddy situation we only kissed and mild touching.

Im baboozled by what she said, my reaction was ye i dont want to take it fast either.

Just why would a girl say this ?

Another thing is I asked her why she thinks like this and she said my expectations of her in a relationship... mm ok den?

thoughts guys?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shes a virgin so she won't be ****ing me, at least for a while. Anyone know why she wouldn't want a relationship i am just curious.
 
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LegendBoy said:
Shes a virgin so she won't be ****ing me, at least for a while. Anyone know why she wouldn't want a relationship i am just curious.
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LegendBoy.. that's a good name you're still obviously a boy. Why do you want a relationship after 1 week? This girl is 16 but obviously a little bit more mature than you when it comes to this type of thing. Relationships are based off attraction and vibing. It's not like the movies where two people get together and just start dating because it's convenient. You can't force a woman to be in love, she must fall in love. Besides that, it takes a lot longer than a week to determine whether they are compatible with you. It takes a lot longer. This is why men usually **** women for at least a month before he decides to date her (or usually before she pops the question).

So take a step back, give her space, and salvage any interest she has in you atm. Tell her that it's fine you're not looking for a relationship and you were about to say the same thing to her. Cease contact. Wait till she calls you. Date other girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just tell her...

Baby, im not going 2 fast... your just going 2 slow.
 
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