"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl I am Dating may have Dated my Boss

Delly2000

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This girl I have been dating for the past month treats me good. She is cute. Irons my clothes for work. Basically she is a giver. Intelligent and has her act together (PHD..own car...own apartment). Anyhow I have a hunch that she may have dated my boss (her best friend works at my job) So I went on her facebook and see that he is a friend on her FB. My boss is a cool guy. But it still kinda bugs me. Its just awkward.

How would you guys proceed? I know its too soon to say for sure but she seems like wifey material. No red flags so far. But I am not sure if I can get past her dating my boss. It feels weird. I guess its a form of jealousy.

What would you guys do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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K2000kidd

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Sounds like this movie I once saw where the guy had learned his gf fkd the boss ( turned out to be the wrong Lumberg) once and they trash a copier and one disgruntled worker keeps saying he's "gonna set the building on fire".

If your boss is the jealous type this could end badly. Especially how easy it is to fire someone in an "at will" employment state. Keep it low key and go with the flow man
 

scrouds

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Stick it in her pooper. Then get some poop, semen and astroglide junk and spread a bit on his desk.

Seriously, get over it or ditch her. Nowadays unless you get them fresh out of preschool (perv), they're going to have some type of history, one way or another.
 

Jitterbug

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Or you can find out the dirt about your boss and blackmail him for a raise. Sex + more money = win.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Delly,
"Wifey Material"?......but then sleeping with the Boss is a bit like Shvagging Teach at University....A Rite De Passage.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nutz

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Danger said:
Ha, that's the first thing that popped into my mind too.
LMAO! That's EXACTLY what I was thinking too. Office Space, such a classic movie.
 

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If she's a great gal, that's all you need to know.

Don't let the fact she might have been out with the boss bang around in your head. It'll drive you crazy if you do.
 
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