"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl I am Dating may have Dated my Boss

Delly2000

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This girl I have been dating for the past month treats me good. She is cute. Irons my clothes for work. Basically she is a giver. Intelligent and has her act together (PHD..own car...own apartment). Anyhow I have a hunch that she may have dated my boss (her best friend works at my job) So I went on her facebook and see that he is a friend on her FB. My boss is a cool guy. But it still kinda bugs me. Its just awkward.

How would you guys proceed? I know its too soon to say for sure but she seems like wifey material. No red flags so far. But I am not sure if I can get past her dating my boss. It feels weird. I guess its a form of jealousy.

What would you guys do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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K2000kidd

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Sounds like this movie I once saw where the guy had learned his gf fkd the boss ( turned out to be the wrong Lumberg) once and they trash a copier and one disgruntled worker keeps saying he's "gonna set the building on fire".

If your boss is the jealous type this could end badly. Especially how easy it is to fire someone in an "at will" employment state. Keep it low key and go with the flow man
 

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Stick it in her pooper. Then get some poop, semen and astroglide junk and spread a bit on his desk.

Seriously, get over it or ditch her. Nowadays unless you get them fresh out of preschool (perv), they're going to have some type of history, one way or another.
 

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Or you can find out the dirt about your boss and blackmail him for a raise. Sex + more money = win.
 

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Dear Delly,
"Wifey Material"?......but then sleeping with the Boss is a bit like Shvagging Teach at University....A Rite De Passage.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Danger said:
Ha, that's the first thing that popped into my mind too.
LMAO! That's EXACTLY what I was thinking too. Office Space, such a classic movie.
 

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If she's a great gal, that's all you need to know.

Don't let the fact she might have been out with the boss bang around in your head. It'll drive you crazy if you do.
 
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