"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl I am Dating may have Dated my Boss

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This girl I have been dating for the past month treats me good. She is cute. Irons my clothes for work. Basically she is a giver. Intelligent and has her act together (PHD..own car...own apartment). Anyhow I have a hunch that she may have dated my boss (her best friend works at my job) So I went on her facebook and see that he is a friend on her FB. My boss is a cool guy. But it still kinda bugs me. Its just awkward.

How would you guys proceed? I know its too soon to say for sure but she seems like wifey material. No red flags so far. But I am not sure if I can get past her dating my boss. It feels weird. I guess its a form of jealousy.

What would you guys do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like this movie I once saw where the guy had learned his gf fkd the boss ( turned out to be the wrong Lumberg) once and they trash a copier and one disgruntled worker keeps saying he's "gonna set the building on fire".

If your boss is the jealous type this could end badly. Especially how easy it is to fire someone in an "at will" employment state. Keep it low key and go with the flow man
 
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Stick it in her pooper. Then get some poop, semen and astroglide junk and spread a bit on his desk.

Seriously, get over it or ditch her. Nowadays unless you get them fresh out of preschool (perv), they're going to have some type of history, one way or another.
 
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Or you can find out the dirt about your boss and blackmail him for a raise. Sex + more money = win.
 
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Dear Delly,
"Wifey Material"?......but then sleeping with the Boss is a bit like Shvagging Teach at University....A Rite De Passage.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Danger said:
Ha, that's the first thing that popped into my mind too.
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LMAO! That's EXACTLY what I was thinking too. Office Space, such a classic movie.
 
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If she's a great gal, that's all you need to know.

Don't let the fact she might have been out with the boss bang around in your head. It'll drive you crazy if you do.
 
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