"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

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Girl hung up on ex that died

dk1990S111

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Friend of mine wants me to meet this chick, says we’d get along really well. But I looked at her FB and definitely seems like she’s still hung up on her ex that died about a year or two ago. Still has him in the background picture on her page (him sitting on a hill facing away).

Probably just one to avoid getting involved with seems like?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would personally avoid. That decision is up to you, though.
 

Billtx49

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It would depend on how long they were together, her attachment, and the circumstances of his death, but a FB pic isn’t much of an indication that she hasn’t moved on yet…
I’ve seen girls leave pics up of old BF while dating new BF.
 

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I agree with Bill.... do you have any further evidence that she is actually hung up? Second, what are you looking for here? You shouldn’t be focused on long term outcomes in dating. Just date, and enjoy the moment.... if things progress, great, if not, no big deal. Go on a date with her and if she talks constantly about her dead ex then you know not to go on another date with her.
 

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Alvafe

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one thing I always follow is never follow up meetings who start with, "we’d get along really well", because msot of time you won't, plus the whole pressure the one who made the meeting happen will put to not only know but to see it happen.

if this was true it would happen on just inviting both to the same party, and then see it happen, you sure don't need to had some pressure from a 3rd part
 

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Rather than assuming things. Just take an hour out of your life to meet her and see what's up. You'll know fairly quickly if she's ready to move on or not. Very simple.

Don't let your hamster wheel go into overdrive for something like this. This is what girls do.
 
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