“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl hung up on ex that died

dk1990S111

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Friend of mine wants me to meet this chick, says we’d get along really well. But I looked at her FB and definitely seems like she’s still hung up on her ex that died about a year or two ago. Still has him in the background picture on her page (him sitting on a hill facing away).

Probably just one to avoid getting involved with seems like?
 

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I would personally avoid. That decision is up to you, though.
 

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It would depend on how long they were together, her attachment, and the circumstances of his death, but a FB pic isn’t much of an indication that she hasn’t moved on yet…
I’ve seen girls leave pics up of old BF while dating new BF.
 

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I agree with Bill.... do you have any further evidence that she is actually hung up? Second, what are you looking for here? You shouldn’t be focused on long term outcomes in dating. Just date, and enjoy the moment.... if things progress, great, if not, no big deal. Go on a date with her and if she talks constantly about her dead ex then you know not to go on another date with her.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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one thing I always follow is never follow up meetings who start with, "we’d get along really well", because msot of time you won't, plus the whole pressure the one who made the meeting happen will put to not only know but to see it happen.

if this was true it would happen on just inviting both to the same party, and then see it happen, you sure don't need to had some pressure from a 3rd part
 

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Rather than assuming things. Just take an hour out of your life to meet her and see what's up. You'll know fairly quickly if she's ready to move on or not. Very simple.

Don't let your hamster wheel go into overdrive for something like this. This is what girls do.
 
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