"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl hit me back up. Now what?

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So here's some proof for you all that game and distance and stuff like that does indeed work.

If you read my journal, you know that I was talking to this girl named HB Rache. I messed up and came on too strong, and she started flat out ignoring my messages. When it happened again, I followed that "Two Strikes" rule and nexted her. I started talking to other prospects.

Of course I'm self improving the whole time. I get myself a nice new white jacket, and I get a fresh new haircut. I post a nice selfie where I'm looking sharp. Then, she suddenly DMs me and she's like "Aw you look tired is everything good?" and she asks me if I'm staying in the city and stuff. She's also started sending me memes again on Instagram. That's the power of a fresh cut man.

So my question is, what do I do now? I would like to smash, but how would I go about it without being clingy? Do I just game her again but actually use the rules of game like not texting too much, using value giving texts, and then eventually have her over? Y'all tell me cause I really have no idea
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just ask her to catch up over a drink.
 
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Well, since u r a follower of rules, according to Murphy's Law; the more u plan, the higher the chances of a fvck up.

Then ur solution; Keep it plain and simple.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stop over thinking, firstly. Secondly, you can fake all the behaviors of a DJ for a little while, but it'd be better if you focused on making it congruent with your personality otherwise it will fall apart. You should be actively waking up and working on yourself every day, organising your time into your life and if you have some time for a woman, be entertaining only the women who are reciprocating the effort you're putting in.

As for what you should do. If you're ever confused, just ask her out and escalate. That is it. Ignore her behavior, do not text her all day every day, don't pine and wonder what's happening. Spend your days living your life, contact early on should only be for setting up dates. When you're out, escalate until she rejects your advances and be cool. Do not ever get annoyed or upset with a woman. Then repeat the process. That is literally the first three months of dating in five words. Ask her out and escalate.
 
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Be careful. Some girls will hit you up after rejecting you only because they hate feeling like they are on someone's bad side.
She could just be trying to make sure things are good between you.

If you feel that this is not the case then tell her "I want to see you" on a day that you know she is free.
 
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ohrein said:
Stop over thinking, firstly. Secondly, you can fake all the behaviors of a DJ for a little while, but it'd be better if you focused on making it congruent with your personality otherwise it will fall apart. You should be actively waking up and working on yourself every day, organising your time into your life and if you have some time for a woman, be entertaining only the women who are reciprocating the effort you're putting in.

As for what you should do. If you're ever confused, just ask her out and escalate. That is it. Ignore her behavior, do not text her all day every day, don't pine and wonder what's happening. Spend your days living your life, contact early on should only be for setting up dates. When you're out, escalate until she rejects your advances and be cool. Do not ever get annoyed or upset with a woman. Then repeat the process. That is literally the first three months of dating in five words. Ask her out and escalate.
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Good point man. Maybe it's cause I do computers and code but I always tend to overthink things
 
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