Girl hit me back up. Now what?

[nicksaiz65]

So here's some proof for you all that game and distance and stuff like that does indeed work.

If you read my journal, you know that I was talking to this girl named HB Rache. I messed up and came on too strong, and she started flat out ignoring my messages. When it happened again, I followed that "Two Strikes" rule and nexted her. I started talking to other prospects.

Of course I'm self improving the whole time. I get myself a nice new white jacket, and I get a fresh new haircut. I post a nice selfie where I'm looking sharp. Then, she suddenly DMs me and she's like "Aw you look tired is everything good?" and she asks me if I'm staying in the city and stuff. She's also started sending me memes again on Instagram. That's the power of a fresh cut man.

So my question is, what do I do now? I would like to smash, but how would I go about it without being clingy? Do I just game her again but actually use the rules of game like not texting too much, using value giving texts, and then eventually have her over? Y'all tell me cause I really have no idea

 

[Spaz]

LOL

 

[nicksaiz65]

LOL

The thing is I'm so serious cause I don't know how to deal with this lol

 

[TBG]

Just ask her to catch up over a drink.

 

[Spaz]

Well, since u r a follower of rules, according to Murphy's Law; the more u plan, the higher the chances of a fvck up.

Then ur solution; Keep it plain and simple.

 

[ohrein]

Stop over thinking, firstly. Secondly, you can fake all the behaviors of a DJ for a little while, but it'd be better if you focused on making it congruent with your personality otherwise it will fall apart. You should be actively waking up and working on yourself every day, organising your time into your life and if you have some time for a woman, be entertaining only the women who are reciprocating the effort you're putting in.

As for what you should do. If you're ever confused, just ask her out and escalate. That is it. Ignore her behavior, do not text her all day every day, don't pine and wonder what's happening. Spend your days living your life, contact early on should only be for setting up dates. When you're out, escalate until she rejects your advances and be cool. Do not ever get annoyed or upset with a woman. Then repeat the process. That is literally the first three months of dating in five words. Ask her out and escalate.

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

Be careful. Some girls will hit you up after rejecting you only because they hate feeling like they are on someone's bad side.
She could just be trying to make sure things are good between you.

If you feel that this is not the case then tell her "I want to see you" on a day that you know she is free.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Stop over thinking, firstly. Secondly, you can fake all the behaviors of a DJ for a little while, but it'd be better if you focused on making it congruent with your personality otherwise it will fall apart. You should be actively waking up and working on yourself every day, organising your time into your life and if you have some time for a woman, be entertaining only the women who are reciprocating the effort you're putting in.

As for what you should do. If you're ever confused, just ask her out and escalate. That is it. Ignore her behavior, do not text her all day every day, don't pine and wonder what's happening. Spend your days living your life, contact early on should only be for setting up dates. When you're out, escalate until she rejects your advances and be cool. Do not ever get annoyed or upset with a woman. Then repeat the process. That is literally the first three months of dating in five words. Ask her out and escalate.

Good point man. Maybe it's cause I do computers and code but I always tend to overthink things