"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl hinted to public gathering, but have no wing (need fast responses)
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Master Don Juan
If you feel that insecure, pretend like your best bud had to bail on you becasue of something important. Just play it off. You can do it, man. It's not a big deal.
Remeber,if she asked YOU to join her someplace, she wants to see YOU.
Not your 'wingman."
Think about that.
How would you behave if you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was "into you."?
Think about it.
Finally, is female company something fun for you?
What I mean is... do you simply enjoy hanging out with chicks. man?
Can you just relax, be comfortable and interact with them genuinely and in a non needy ,clingy or desperate way?
If your answer is "Yes", then you shoudln't 'worry" about anything.
Think of it as just being social, which is normal. Which you should be doing anyway.
Guys get nervous when they feel they need to impress, or put on a show, or qualify themselves to women.
That's totally unnecccesary and incorrect thought and behavior.
Never try to get a girl to 'like you."
Never try to impress anyone.
Never look to 'entertain' women.
Never Qualify yourself to ANY woman.
Never show Interest to her, if she does or has nothing interesting about her.
I entered and she immediately knew me, and said hello, i of course responded by waving... i then found a HB7 and an HB6 to use as social proof as i wouldn't be able to talk to her (because she was busy), I received about 25 IOIs from the target, hair touch, lots face touching, etc. which was good.
After the game, she left to get changed, i wasn't aware of this, so after about 20 minutes, i left, however, i still saw her car parked outside. She must've been a few seconds off for me to make my approach. The reason i didn't stay for the other game was because i saw no reason to stay if there was gonna be no HBs to game, plus i wasn't attracted to the other 2 HBs i was gaming. I thus used a false time constraint by saying that my buddies were meeting at a different spot and left. I guess i learned that 20 minutes is not enough time to let a woman "get ready". Whatever, either way she's gonna come out expecting me, and i won't be there. She will have seen me with good social proof, so it will have been a DHV in itself.
Either way, had a good night, will drop a call in to her and see where it goes, since we're both into fitness, maybe go to the gym or shopping.
Plus on the side note, developed good rapport with some other HBs, so overall pretty good night.
Questions or comments about my field report? Love to hear
