"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girl hinted to public gathering, but have no wing (need fast responses)
- Thread starter jdawgmcb
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
If you feel that insecure, pretend like your best bud had to bail on you becasue of something important. Just play it off. You can do it, man. It's not a big deal.
Remeber,if she asked YOU to join her someplace, she wants to see YOU.
Not your 'wingman."
Think about that.
How would you behave if you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was "into you."?
Think about it.
Finally, is female company something fun for you?
What I mean is... do you simply enjoy hanging out with chicks. man?
Can you just relax, be comfortable and interact with them genuinely and in a non needy ,clingy or desperate way?
If your answer is "Yes", then you shoudln't 'worry" about anything.
Think of it as just being social, which is normal. Which you should be doing anyway.
Guys get nervous when they feel they need to impress, or put on a show, or qualify themselves to women.
That's totally unnecccesary and incorrect thought and behavior.
Never try to get a girl to 'like you."
Never try to impress anyone.
Never look to 'entertain' women.
Never Qualify yourself to ANY woman.
Never show Interest to her, if she does or has nothing interesting about her.
I entered and she immediately knew me, and said hello, i of course responded by waving... i then found a HB7 and an HB6 to use as social proof as i wouldn't be able to talk to her (because she was busy), I received about 25 IOIs from the target, hair touch, lots face touching, etc. which was good.
After the game, she left to get changed, i wasn't aware of this, so after about 20 minutes, i left, however, i still saw her car parked outside. She must've been a few seconds off for me to make my approach. The reason i didn't stay for the other game was because i saw no reason to stay if there was gonna be no HBs to game, plus i wasn't attracted to the other 2 HBs i was gaming. I thus used a false time constraint by saying that my buddies were meeting at a different spot and left. I guess i learned that 20 minutes is not enough time to let a woman "get ready". Whatever, either way she's gonna come out expecting me, and i won't be there. She will have seen me with good social proof, so it will have been a DHV in itself.
Either way, had a good night, will drop a call in to her and see where it goes, since we're both into fitness, maybe go to the gym or shopping.
Plus on the side note, developed good rapport with some other HBs, so overall pretty good night.
Questions or comments about my field report? Love to hear
