"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Girl hinted to public gathering, but have no wing (need fast responses)
- Thread starter jdawgmcb
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
If you feel that insecure, pretend like your best bud had to bail on you becasue of something important. Just play it off. You can do it, man. It's not a big deal.
Remeber,if she asked YOU to join her someplace, she wants to see YOU.
Not your 'wingman."
Think about that.
How would you behave if you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was "into you."?
Think about it.
Finally, is female company something fun for you?
What I mean is... do you simply enjoy hanging out with chicks. man?
Can you just relax, be comfortable and interact with them genuinely and in a non needy ,clingy or desperate way?
If your answer is "Yes", then you shoudln't 'worry" about anything.
Think of it as just being social, which is normal. Which you should be doing anyway.
Guys get nervous when they feel they need to impress, or put on a show, or qualify themselves to women.
That's totally unnecccesary and incorrect thought and behavior.
Never try to get a girl to 'like you."
Never try to impress anyone.
Never look to 'entertain' women.
Never Qualify yourself to ANY woman.
Never show Interest to her, if she does or has nothing interesting about her.
I entered and she immediately knew me, and said hello, i of course responded by waving... i then found a HB7 and an HB6 to use as social proof as i wouldn't be able to talk to her (because she was busy), I received about 25 IOIs from the target, hair touch, lots face touching, etc. which was good.
After the game, she left to get changed, i wasn't aware of this, so after about 20 minutes, i left, however, i still saw her car parked outside. She must've been a few seconds off for me to make my approach. The reason i didn't stay for the other game was because i saw no reason to stay if there was gonna be no HBs to game, plus i wasn't attracted to the other 2 HBs i was gaming. I thus used a false time constraint by saying that my buddies were meeting at a different spot and left. I guess i learned that 20 minutes is not enough time to let a woman "get ready". Whatever, either way she's gonna come out expecting me, and i won't be there. She will have seen me with good social proof, so it will have been a DHV in itself.
Either way, had a good night, will drop a call in to her and see where it goes, since we're both into fitness, maybe go to the gym or shopping.
Plus on the side note, developed good rapport with some other HBs, so overall pretty good night.
Questions or comments about my field report? Love to hear
