"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

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Girl has recently come out of a LTR and is very open about her life story

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Don Juan
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Just met a girl (online dating) who has come out of a 15year relationship 5 months ago (she is 33) and we have had two great dates – so much in common, ideas, views, likes, good laughs, very affectionate.... (first date I kiss closed) and the second we are in bed after a great day together. She initiates kissing, holding hands, cuddling. She even washed up and made the bed for me:yes:

Now, she has told me her life story and has mentioned her ex a bit...from all the bits, it sounded a mundane lifestyle they had (doing up the house, no holidays, not dining out, etc..) and they had fallen out of love and she tried to leave some 7 years ago.

So, I enjoy her company and know that I could be rebound guy so therefore I am keeping close check on things! No texting...set up meeting up face to face but how do I play this?

Secondley, her openness, is this a good thing or a massive red flag?
 

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