“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl has recently come out of a LTR and is very open about her life story

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Don Juan
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Just met a girl (online dating) who has come out of a 15year relationship 5 months ago (she is 33) and we have had two great dates – so much in common, ideas, views, likes, good laughs, very affectionate.... (first date I kiss closed) and the second we are in bed after a great day together. She initiates kissing, holding hands, cuddling. She even washed up and made the bed for me:yes:

Now, she has told me her life story and has mentioned her ex a bit...from all the bits, it sounded a mundane lifestyle they had (doing up the house, no holidays, not dining out, etc..) and they had fallen out of love and she tried to leave some 7 years ago.

So, I enjoy her company and know that I could be rebound guy so therefore I am keeping close check on things! No texting...set up meeting up face to face but how do I play this?

Secondley, her openness, is this a good thing or a massive red flag?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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