Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Snowman23

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Should I be concerned? Obviously she doesn't talk to this many people... I was just wondering if I should proceed with caution.

I'm sure there's plenty of orbiters.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDanny

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I know of only one chick with 1000+ friends, she is the female version of what most guys here should aspire to be. Not in terms of the PUA aspects, but in terms of having her **** together, being comfortable in any situation and being a leader rather then a follower.

And as far as i know she's been in a extremely stable relationship with a strong alpha for awhile now.
 

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I've seen girls like that, and they are generally AW'S with an extreme amount of orbiters.

So she's definately being hit on by many different guys, so if you want her you're going to have to stand above the rest.
 

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Unless you're a celebrity or something, 1000+ Friends are just a bragging number. She wants to put a screen. In fact, I'll tell you, one of them even confessed me that she accepted every friend invitation and that she added random people from her network just to pump the number.

For example,my friend network is pretty ****ty and if I accepted every weirdo that added me, I'd be way up 300, but I'm not even half that number.
 

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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I've seen girls with 4,000+ friends and yeah, if you want her or even want to get a convo flowing, you're going to need to stand above the rest - social proof.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Connor99

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Nobody has 1000 "FRIENDS" facebook friends is much different

Id be more concerned with who she really hangs out with . I have people on my facebook who i see at work maybe twice a month and we say "hey whats up ?" and move on...lol

Some people like to inflate the facebook friends number so they look more popular....For some reason having 70-100 friends on facebook isn't cool lol because other people go crazy with the adds

When you think about it having 100 friends is a lot.....i dont even have time for 100 friends...never mind 1000...facebook is pretty fake
 

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I wouldnt be too concerned, if shes involve with a lot of stuff at school/community its normal, I know a lot of people with 1000 + i mean thats pretty insane but its not too hard to do, If I was on my student union or a varsity team id be at that number too, Im at 700 without that. Only a handful of those i dont really know who the hell they are lol.
 

Pickupmilitia

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yea facebook is all bs
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sounds like a ATTENTION WH0RE!!!
 
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I don't care where you work or what university you attend, nobody talks to a thousand people on a regular basis. Anyone who believes otherwise is delusional.

She probably doesn't even talk a quarter of the people on her list. If she even knows them to begin with.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I just want to know why when a girl has 1000+ friends on facebook, she a attention b1tch

but if a guy have that many then he just a popular cool alpha male. makes no sense

anyway, most people are lucky to talk to atleast 10 people consistently. 1000+ people is ridiculous. you should just look at that number and see that most of those people don't know her
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Negative_Nancy said:
I just want to know why when a girl has 1000+ friends on facebook, she a attention b1tch

but if a guy have that many then he just a popular cool alpha male. makes no sense
Read the Natural Order of Things. If this site still has that post...
 

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the average person on my friends list has over 1000 friends on their list. it's just the internet
 

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Friends list means nothing.

A person's "Wall" comments is a better indicator of how many people someone actually talks to.

For example... I have a friend who only has 50 people on his list, yet all of those people comment on his "Wall". So I know he regularly talks to them.

I also know people who have over 500 friends yet I only see the same 10-15 people commenting on their Wall.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i'd steer clear from any girl that uses facebook too much. my ex used to be on it for 6 hours when she got home. too much hassle and to much distraction from other lads.
 
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The sheeple with that many "friends" on facebook need to:

A) Google up a real life and

B) Add a good Psychiatrist to their friends.


Sadly I fear neither will help these chronic's diseased, alleged minds.
 

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How is she act towards you is the real issue. If it's constant fights, nagging, and trying to get over on you, let's just say she has a big pool of folks to screw around with. If everything is actually alright, do yourslef a huge favor and don't dwell on this: it will just make you insecure.
 

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You guys are fucking delusional brainwashed fags. I swear.

She's an attention *****? Why are you guys getting so mad and judgemental over this... about a girl you don't know, and a girl that's on facebook, a girl that's being a girl.

Jeezy petes. you guys need to get off SoSuave and get a life. You guys are just stating the obvious. OBVIOUSLY she doesn't talk to them all... the end.

Stop caring so much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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