"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Snowman23

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Should I be concerned? Obviously she doesn't talk to this many people... I was just wondering if I should proceed with caution.

I'm sure there's plenty of orbiters.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDanny

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I know of only one chick with 1000+ friends, she is the female version of what most guys here should aspire to be. Not in terms of the PUA aspects, but in terms of having her **** together, being comfortable in any situation and being a leader rather then a follower.

And as far as i know she's been in a extremely stable relationship with a strong alpha for awhile now.
 

Recon

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I've seen girls like that, and they are generally AW'S with an extreme amount of orbiters.

So she's definately being hit on by many different guys, so if you want her you're going to have to stand above the rest.
 

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Unless you're a celebrity or something, 1000+ Friends are just a bragging number. She wants to put a screen. In fact, I'll tell you, one of them even confessed me that she accepted every friend invitation and that she added random people from her network just to pump the number.

For example,my friend network is pretty ****ty and if I accepted every weirdo that added me, I'd be way up 300, but I'm not even half that number.
 

MAN_OF_TOMMOROW

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I've seen girls with 4,000+ friends and yeah, if you want her or even want to get a convo flowing, you're going to need to stand above the rest - social proof.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Connor99

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Nobody has 1000 "FRIENDS" facebook friends is much different

Id be more concerned with who she really hangs out with . I have people on my facebook who i see at work maybe twice a month and we say "hey whats up ?" and move on...lol

Some people like to inflate the facebook friends number so they look more popular....For some reason having 70-100 friends on facebook isn't cool lol because other people go crazy with the adds

When you think about it having 100 friends is a lot.....i dont even have time for 100 friends...never mind 1000...facebook is pretty fake
 

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I wouldnt be too concerned, if shes involve with a lot of stuff at school/community its normal, I know a lot of people with 1000 + i mean thats pretty insane but its not too hard to do, If I was on my student union or a varsity team id be at that number too, Im at 700 without that. Only a handful of those i dont really know who the hell they are lol.
 

Pickupmilitia

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yea facebook is all bs
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sounds like a ATTENTION WH0RE!!!
 
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I don't care where you work or what university you attend, nobody talks to a thousand people on a regular basis. Anyone who believes otherwise is delusional.

She probably doesn't even talk a quarter of the people on her list. If she even knows them to begin with.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just want to know why when a girl has 1000+ friends on facebook, she a attention b1tch

but if a guy have that many then he just a popular cool alpha male. makes no sense

anyway, most people are lucky to talk to atleast 10 people consistently. 1000+ people is ridiculous. you should just look at that number and see that most of those people don't know her
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Negative_Nancy said:
I just want to know why when a girl has 1000+ friends on facebook, she a attention b1tch

but if a guy have that many then he just a popular cool alpha male. makes no sense
Read the Natural Order of Things. If this site still has that post...
 

omega05

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the average person on my friends list has over 1000 friends on their list. it's just the internet
 

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Friends list means nothing.

A person's "Wall" comments is a better indicator of how many people someone actually talks to.

For example... I have a friend who only has 50 people on his list, yet all of those people comment on his "Wall". So I know he regularly talks to them.

I also know people who have over 500 friends yet I only see the same 10-15 people commenting on their Wall.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i'd steer clear from any girl that uses facebook too much. my ex used to be on it for 6 hours when she got home. too much hassle and to much distraction from other lads.
 
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The sheeple with that many "friends" on facebook need to:

A) Google up a real life and

B) Add a good Psychiatrist to their friends.


Sadly I fear neither will help these chronic's diseased, alleged minds.
 

Da Realist

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How is she act towards you is the real issue. If it's constant fights, nagging, and trying to get over on you, let's just say she has a big pool of folks to screw around with. If everything is actually alright, do yourslef a huge favor and don't dwell on this: it will just make you insecure.
 

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You guys are fucking delusional brainwashed fags. I swear.

She's an attention *****? Why are you guys getting so mad and judgemental over this... about a girl you don't know, and a girl that's on facebook, a girl that's being a girl.

Jeezy petes. you guys need to get off SoSuave and get a life. You guys are just stating the obvious. OBVIOUSLY she doesn't talk to them all... the end.

Stop caring so much.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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