Avn_0903 said:
So here's the story, the girl I'm going for is interested in me, that I know. however she has not been that responsive to me recently.
This seems like somewhat of a contradiction in terms.
You say that from what you know,she's interested in you,however,she's been nonresponsive.
Well if she's been nonresponsive,what gives you the immpression that she likes you?
Another thing:You said...
Avn0903 said:
This girl I'm going for...
Well,how long have you been "going for her"? And
how are you going for her/trying to make her interested in you?
Avn0903 said:
She has a guy friend that she hangs out w/ almost all the time since they have same classes n extracurricular activities. 2 years ago this guy tried to chase her but she had a boyfriend then so nothing happened between them n he was not interested in her anymore.
So she hangs out with a guy a lot,has classes with him,and tried to date her two years ago. Tell me...
How do you know all this about this guy and her? How did you learn all this?
Avn0903 said:
I can see that she gives him IOIs a lot, probably more than she gives me. However I just cannot fathom that if they have been friends for 2 years, anything is going to happen between them now.
I agree. If they've been around each other for 2 years and haven't dated yet,more than likely,it's a friendzone situation.
And you're mistaken about her giving him IOIs. I don't know what she's doing to give you that idea,but if they've been around each other for all that time and haven't even tried to date one another,those aren't IOIs you're seeing.
Avn0903 said:
Should I confront her about this?
Should you confront her about what? What has she done?
You want to confront her because
you feel jealous? Over a friendzone relationship?
Wow.
What I'm wondering is why you haven't
ASKED HER OUT. If she's single,and is only friends with this guy,what's that got to do with YOU DATING HER?
You seem more preoccupied with her and him than her and
YOU.
The title of this thread is "Girl has a very close
FRIEND,not a boyfriend. If she's currently single,then she's probably just using this guy to fill needs that her boyfriend would fill
if she had one.
That means once she find a guy she wants to date,she'll drop/drastically reduce the amount of time she spends with this guy.
She may flirt with him from time to time in order to keep him around in case things go sour with her boyfriend,but she has NO SEXUAL INTEREST in him.
I'd just stop worrying about this girl,and go all out to make her mine.
Confronting her will just make her feel attacked. If you create attraction in her,she'll naturally,
willingly spend less time with this guy in order to spend more time with you.