"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl got dumped... how long do I wait?

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So a friend of a friend got dumped by her boyfriend on sunday. They went out for about a month and a half. So I'm thinking "now she's single, and pretty cute, I should go after her."

How long should I wait to let her get over her ex before I move in and ask her out?

EDIT: I was thinking of asking her out for Valentines day... too early?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im sure other guys that know her are thinking the exactly samething. Some of them arent going to waste time, some of them are going to wait without putting themselves in a position where she even thinks of them....this is where you come in. Dont give her all the attention that others guys that wanna get in her pants are going to give her because youll be lumped in the same group with them. Instead stand out, flirt with her and make her wonder. Shell think of you differently than the other chumps who dove in head first. Run some game then pull back a little...rinse and repeat as necessary.
 
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Totally. There is this dude who goes to UT San Antonio (we go to University of Texas in Austin... about 2 hours away) who totally has his **** in his hand over her. He's rushing over here this weekend to comfort her and generally be a bleeding vagina. I talked to her while passing between classes and she asked me to hang out with them during the weekend, to which I declined because, well, lets face it, that's pretty ****ing lame.

So, yeah, I of course want to avoid the initial rush of people trying to get in her pants... it's just, should I try to make the valentines day thing work, or just self the idea and put my **** in my pocket? Love Day is a tuesday this year, remember.
 
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They dated 1.5 months. There's no waiting time for that. You can move straight in, although I doubt that's a smart move. Your intentions would be too obvious.

Ask her to hang out, not on a date. Run your game on her, push&pull. Make sure she doesn't know if she can have you or not. Flirt, kino, escalate..baddabing-baddaboom...she's naked :D
 
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hang out, not date, got it.

So... movie and dinner, not going to lake travis and rowing to the middle of the lake for champaign.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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6 weeks is nothing at all

as sugested , no date on V day , hang out

hey i'm planning on catching a movie and grabbing a bite to eat on Tuesday , why dont you come along ??

easy done
 
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