"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl got dumped... how long do I wait?

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So a friend of a friend got dumped by her boyfriend on sunday. They went out for about a month and a half. So I'm thinking "now she's single, and pretty cute, I should go after her."

How long should I wait to let her get over her ex before I move in and ask her out?

EDIT: I was thinking of asking her out for Valentines day... too early?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im sure other guys that know her are thinking the exactly samething. Some of them arent going to waste time, some of them are going to wait without putting themselves in a position where she even thinks of them....this is where you come in. Dont give her all the attention that others guys that wanna get in her pants are going to give her because youll be lumped in the same group with them. Instead stand out, flirt with her and make her wonder. Shell think of you differently than the other chumps who dove in head first. Run some game then pull back a little...rinse and repeat as necessary.
 
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Totally. There is this dude who goes to UT San Antonio (we go to University of Texas in Austin... about 2 hours away) who totally has his **** in his hand over her. He's rushing over here this weekend to comfort her and generally be a bleeding vagina. I talked to her while passing between classes and she asked me to hang out with them during the weekend, to which I declined because, well, lets face it, that's pretty ****ing lame.

So, yeah, I of course want to avoid the initial rush of people trying to get in her pants... it's just, should I try to make the valentines day thing work, or just self the idea and put my **** in my pocket? Love Day is a tuesday this year, remember.
 
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They dated 1.5 months. There's no waiting time for that. You can move straight in, although I doubt that's a smart move. Your intentions would be too obvious.

Ask her to hang out, not on a date. Run your game on her, push&pull. Make sure she doesn't know if she can have you or not. Flirt, kino, escalate..baddabing-baddaboom...she's naked :D
 
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hang out, not date, got it.

So... movie and dinner, not going to lake travis and rowing to the middle of the lake for champaign.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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6 weeks is nothing at all

as sugested , no date on V day , hang out

hey i'm planning on catching a movie and grabbing a bite to eat on Tuesday , why dont you come along ??

easy done
 
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