"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl got butthurt after finding out I talked to other girls.

Scars

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So I hung out with this girl tonight, stayed at her house and watched some movies. She brought her stupid friend, but the third wheel was quickly resolved when I called over my wingman. Anyway, we ended up having a decent time and I got the k-close. I would of tried to go further but her parents were home.

Anyway, almost immediately after I leave her house she asks me if I'm dating this other girl K that I'm talking to. I tell her no, but we're talking. (The honest truth.) Then right after that she starts getting short with me. (Mind you, this was over text, but I still know how she acts.. and she wasn't acting normal.) So I called her on it. I ask her if she's mad. Typical girl answer. No. I'm asking her repeatedly, are you sure? Ya.. ya.. ya. Then I ask, ok well why are you being short with me? I'm not. Okay.. so by this point I just stop texting the b!tch because I don't have time for stupid sh!t like this.

I honestly don't think I did anything wrong. I'm not dating anyone, I can talk to as many girls as I want, but this girl took it differently. So do you guys think I acted right? I remained unphased by it. I just kept asking her why she was being weird, and she wouldn't tell me why so I pretty much stopped texting her. So idk. Should I just write her again tomorrow and act like this never happened. Or just let her calm down and wait for her to contact me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alphamale1821

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your a single man and you told the biitch your talking to another giirl. Not her problem that she gets pissed about it. You guys aren't official so it doesn't matter. LEt the chick be pissed fuuck it, not your problem. Simple as that.
 

J Roc

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you did nothing wrong. You are a single man and can talk to whoever you want. If she cant deal with it oh well. Dont bring it up unless she says something about it.
 

j0n024

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"I just stop texting the b!tch because I don't have time for stupid sh!t like this."

IF you dont have time for this stupid sh1t then why worry or for that matter be thinking about sending her a message back?
 
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