"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl got butthurt after finding out I talked to other girls.

Scars

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So I hung out with this girl tonight, stayed at her house and watched some movies. She brought her stupid friend, but the third wheel was quickly resolved when I called over my wingman. Anyway, we ended up having a decent time and I got the k-close. I would of tried to go further but her parents were home.

Anyway, almost immediately after I leave her house she asks me if I'm dating this other girl K that I'm talking to. I tell her no, but we're talking. (The honest truth.) Then right after that she starts getting short with me. (Mind you, this was over text, but I still know how she acts.. and she wasn't acting normal.) So I called her on it. I ask her if she's mad. Typical girl answer. No. I'm asking her repeatedly, are you sure? Ya.. ya.. ya. Then I ask, ok well why are you being short with me? I'm not. Okay.. so by this point I just stop texting the b!tch because I don't have time for stupid sh!t like this.

I honestly don't think I did anything wrong. I'm not dating anyone, I can talk to as many girls as I want, but this girl took it differently. So do you guys think I acted right? I remained unphased by it. I just kept asking her why she was being weird, and she wouldn't tell me why so I pretty much stopped texting her. So idk. Should I just write her again tomorrow and act like this never happened. Or just let her calm down and wait for her to contact me?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Alphamale1821

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your a single man and you told the biitch your talking to another giirl. Not her problem that she gets pissed about it. You guys aren't official so it doesn't matter. LEt the chick be pissed fuuck it, not your problem. Simple as that.
 

J Roc

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you did nothing wrong. You are a single man and can talk to whoever you want. If she cant deal with it oh well. Dont bring it up unless she says something about it.
 

j0n024

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"I just stop texting the b!tch because I don't have time for stupid sh!t like this."

IF you dont have time for this stupid sh1t then why worry or for that matter be thinking about sending her a message back?
 
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